I wish we could give this agency a negative rating! My husband and I were contacted out of the blue by this agency and were asked to immediately send over $30,000 by wire in order to adopt a precious baby boy that had supposedly just been born in another state, because the mother didn't want him. They were so nice, and gave us all this information over the phone (we received nothing in writing except the contract) about how the mother was leaving the hospital without the baby and that she didnt care what happened to him or what kind of family adopted him. "Jackie" told us that we were contacted because this was an "emergency situation" and that there were no couples on their list that wanted this bi-racial baby boy. (Looking back now that sounds SO suspicious, and especially after reading posts here from people who have been waiting for a babt years. Didn't ANY of these couple want this baby? Were they even OFFERED this situation?) Anyway, when we got off the phone we were so overjoyed that our baby was actually coming home! We wired the money and travelled over 1000 miles to the hospital. When we got there we got the shock of our lives. We were informed that not only was there no baby waiting for us, but that the "supposed" birthmother (we were only given her first name) had not signed any contracts or made ANY contact with Adoption Advantage except to call and request INFORMATION about adoption. By the time we got there, mother and baby were both gone and the hospital social worker was flabergasted that an agency would purport that this was a viable adoption situation. The people at the hospital treated us better than the agency has, at least they showed us concern and empathy. AA has not called, emailed, returned our phone calls or email, or attempted to contact us in any way concerning our situation or our $30,000! I have since been doing some digging and found out that not only are they in trouble with their local licensing board (in Arkansas) but that they owe money all over the country and are being sued by MULTIPLE parties that have gone through similiar situations. How could they be so callous and cruel to those of us who just want a precious baby to call our own? Why dont they answer the phone or return emails? What's REALLY going on with this company when they are taking in tens of thousands of dollars and not paying their bills? PLEASE PLEASE dont fall for the same "SCAM" that has broken our hearts! If you are contacted by this agency, our advice is the same as the earlier poster's, "RUN THE OTHER WAY!"
I am one of those clients as well. I am so sorry for your loss. It sounds like you have done some digging already but if you haven't, I would really encourage you to contact Lisa Ferrell with the Licensing Unit in Arkansas and explain what happened to you. They are trying to collect as much evidence as possible against them. We have money lost as well and it stinks! Not to even mention the emotional turmoil.
Feel free to email me at icheerforred@yahoo.com if you want to chat more. Lisa's email is Lisa.Ferrell@arkansas.gov
She also gave us a name of an attorney there that several couples are using for a civil suit against them. Again, I am so sorry! We started posting on here so no one else would get hurt!
Yes, we should have done much more research before we contracted with them, but I guess we just got so caught up in the excitement, and the lady we spoke with seemed so genuine, that our better judgement was clouded. I will certainly contact Ms. Ferrell as well. I also think I will be making regular visits to this forum to talk about our experience. Maybe it will boost this website up so that people who are searching for information about Adoption Advantage will have a better chance of seeing it. I am aware of the civil suit, although I heard "through the grapevine" that the company has treatened to just file for bankruptcy if too many people sue them, so we really have no hope of getting our money back. We will have to begin saving again and hopefully in a few more years we will have the resources to try again for our little angel. Again, thanks for your concern and sympanthy, your few words are more than I've received YET from Adoption Advantage!
I too felt the same way, that somehow I missed something and didn't do the research. We weren't even offered a situation or anything. I choose them as a reputable, Christian agency! Now I just feel like a sucker! I often try to step back and think about what I could have done differently. After our last failed adoption, a very supportive friend of mine actual found this website for me and I was truly shocked. At that time (about a year ago) it was more mixed reviews and has been rolling downhill ever since. People are really starting to come out of the woodwork. I am also conflicted about the attorney route because I don't know how much we can afford to invest. I have told that they have no assests, although I find that hard to believe. I think we are going to at least contact the attorney, he does not charge for the initial consultation. Again, I listed my personal email address if you want to get into specifics on anything else. Take care of yourself and take time to heal!
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AA is GREEDY and SHADY DONT SEND THEM MONEY!
I wish we could give this agency a negative rating! My husband and I were contacted out of the blue by this agency and were asked to immediately send over $30,000 by wire in order to adopt a precious baby boy that had supposedly just been born in another state, because the mother didn't want him. They were so nice, and gave us all this information over the phone (we received nothing in writing except the contract) about how the mother was leaving the hospital without the baby and that she didnt care what happened to him or what kind of family adopted him. "Jackie" told us that we were contacted because this was an "emergency situation" and that there were no couples on their list that wanted this bi-racial baby boy. (Looking back now that sounds SO suspicious, and especially after reading posts here from people who have been waiting for a babt years. Didn't ANY of these couple want this baby? Were they even OFFERED this situation?) Anyway, when we got off the phone we were so overjoyed that our baby was actually coming home! We wired the money and travelled over 1000 miles to the hospital. When we got there we got the shock of our lives. We were informed that not only was there no baby waiting for us, but that the "supposed" birthmother (we were only given her first name) had not signed any contracts or made ANY contact with Adoption Advantage except to call and request INFORMATION about adoption. By the time we got there, mother and baby were both gone and the hospital social worker was flabergasted that an agency would purport that this was a viable adoption situation. The people at the hospital treated us better than the agency has, at least they showed us concern and empathy. AA has not called, emailed, returned our phone calls or email, or attempted to contact us in any way concerning our situation or our $30,000! I have since been doing some digging and found out that not only are they in trouble with their local licensing board (in Arkansas) but that they owe money all over the country and are being sued by MULTIPLE parties that have gone through similiar situations. How could they be so callous and cruel to those of us who just want a precious baby to call our own? Why dont they answer the phone or return emails? What's REALLY going on with this company when they are taking in tens of thousands of dollars and not paying their bills? PLEASE PLEASE dont fall for the same "SCAM" that has broken our hearts! If you are contacted by this agency, our advice is the same as the earlier poster's, "RUN THE OTHER WAY!"
I am so sorry!
I am one of those clients as well. I am so sorry for your loss. It sounds like you have done some digging already but if you haven't, I would really encourage you to contact Lisa Ferrell with the Licensing Unit in Arkansas and explain what happened to you. They are trying to collect as much evidence as possible against them. We have money lost as well and it stinks! Not to even mention the emotional turmoil.
Feel free to email me at icheerforred@yahoo.com if you want to chat more. Lisa's email is Lisa.Ferrell@arkansas.gov
She also gave us a name of an attorney there that several couples are using for a civil suit against them. Again, I am so sorry! We started posting on here so no one else would get hurt!
Thank you for your sympathy!
Yes, we should have done much more research before we contracted with them, but I guess we just got so caught up in the excitement, and the lady we spoke with seemed so genuine, that our better judgement was clouded. I will certainly contact Ms. Ferrell as well. I also think I will be making regular visits to this forum to talk about our experience. Maybe it will boost this website up so that people who are searching for information about Adoption Advantage will have a better chance of seeing it. I am aware of the civil suit, although I heard "through the grapevine" that the company has treatened to just file for bankruptcy if too many people sue them, so we really have no hope of getting our money back. We will have to begin saving again and hopefully in a few more years we will have the resources to try again for our little angel. Again, thanks for your concern and sympanthy, your few words are more than I've received YET from Adoption Advantage!
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I too felt the same way, that somehow I missed something and didn't do the research. We weren't even offered a situation or anything. I choose them as a reputable, Christian agency! Now I just feel like a sucker! I often try to step back and think about what I could have done differently. After our last failed adoption, a very supportive friend of mine actual found this website for me and I was truly shocked. At that time (about a year ago) it was more mixed reviews and has been rolling downhill ever since. People are really starting to come out of the woodwork. I am also conflicted about the attorney route because I don't know how much we can afford to invest. I have told that they have no assests, although I find that hard to believe. I think we are going to at least contact the attorney, he does not charge for the initial consultation. Again, I listed my personal email address if you want to get into specifics on anything else. Take care of yourself and take time to heal!