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Adopt International - California

3.066665
Average: 3.1 (15 votes)

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Candice O'Brien works at the Florida Adopt International. Located here http://www.adoptionagencyratings.com/adopt-international-florida.htm

Two unrelated completely separate agencies.

Phone: 1 510-653-8600
Website: http://www.adopt-intl.org
E-mail: adoptinter@aol.com
Address:
160 Santa Clara Avenue
Oakland, CA 94610

Reviews

Absolutely HORRID to the birthmoms

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As a birthmom who placed through this agency, I can't say a single good thing about them. The only time they returned phone calls was before I delivered and when I was in the hospital delivering up until papers were signed. After that? AHAHAHAHA. I was only 16 at the time that I began working with them, and having a daughter born prematurely and hospitalized, I was threatened by the agency with CPS when I wouldn't sign papers immediatley. When I refused, the agency indeed called CPS telling them that I was living in my state with an uncle verses a parent... Though the doctors told me my daughter had a slim chance of surviving, I was being threatened by both the agency and CPS at the same time, so felt I had NO choice but to sign papers. The adoptive parents have NEVER followed through with their post-placement contact agreements. It's a battle to get pictures/updates from them, and generally the pictures are out of focus and out dated. The agency refuses to do anything about it other than say "OH they must be busy"... When I wanted to place again, I didn't know I could use other agencies, and tried contacting them again. I was given the complete run around, and ended up using another agency... My first childs adoptive parents found out and temporarily closed the adoption because I hadn't placed with them. The agency provided absolutely NO post-placement counseling, and everything I told them I was going through, I was basically told to get over it and move on... I wouldn't recommend this agency to ANY birthmom who is considering placing, and adoptive parents, if you have ANY respect for your birthmoms, you wouldn't use an agency that treated them like a number and a money sign as this agency does!

i hope God is there for you

you seem emotionally troubled by your decisions. it's a very tough thing to deal with, i couldnt do it.
babies raising babies never works, though.
i wish you good luck and will pray for you.

open adoptions, even when the birth mom is just trying to get recent pictures or progress notes and calls, doesn't help the mourning process you are going thru.
kids in open adoptions get confused, especially when normal childhood angst kicks in, and punctuates the passing thought where do i really belong? i wasn't adopted, but growing up i wondered if i was. wiser now, i think my parents were great.

for the birth parents there is always the fear that the teenage child will want to book to the greener pastures of the birth mom, instead of face the discipline of hard love. it creates a conflict to trade needed discipline for the affection that comes with spoling the child.

you did the right thing. God will bless you and your kids for that.